Posts Tagged ‘shift’
“Relationships: The Male-Female Role of Provider and Care Giver” is a continuation of the post I did a few days ago on “What is a Healthy Relationship”.
The perceived normal role as a partner, while you have the provider-protector, and then you have the nurturer-comforter, and then sometimes you tend to get locked within those roles. And very often we assume passed-down roles to the detriment of one or the other, meaning – someone thinking they have to be the provider, therefore cannot go on to do other things.
When you did the Oneness Consciousness Event last month I had an Aha-moment, when I realized that manifesting or creating or co-creating, is a condition that requires both sometimes opposites or oppositions, or suppressor and victim, or a victim and a victimizer. That often we have this opposite role in manifesting. And that is why some of our creations may not come out in a specific way.
So my question is:
Can you provide some examples of what a manifestation from Oneness Consciousness would look like, feel, taste, smell, that might be available to people now to look at creating, as opposed to the old paradigm where in a relationship you have the role of the provider, the protector and then you have the role of the caregiver, the nurturer.
If we remove the old paradigm of that duality and now we are approaching a relationship from the Oneness Consciousness, what would that look like?”
Actually, that is an excellent question and staging there, about that whole thing about Oneness, and also, the roles.
Because that is key to understand that the roles we have played in the past, that – one being the male, and they have to play all these specific roles. And we have the female that plays all these other specific roles. And then of course, depending on your culture, and also the different eras, that the roles have changed to some degree, but the roles are different.
So, with the shift in Consciousness that we are going through, with the Oneness Consciousness, we actually go beyond these roles and we start to eliminate the roles.
Where it is not about the male playing all these specific roles and the female playing other specific roles of one being provider and one being the nurturer and so forth.
Those roles were what served in the past and what we played with before, where we started to categorize. But this is one of the things we need to understand, that through this Shift of Consciousness that we are going through, we are allowing the opportunity for play.
See the thing is, what was occurring with us, is that each lifetime that we come back onto the planet, we pick a different role, or a different culture, a different set of parents. To give us a different stage of experiences. Now, also coming into a female or a male gender, that also provided the same thing – a different experience.
But now we are dissolving all of that to a stage where we are in a female body, or a male body, but we are not anymore adhering to what we set as a protocol of what it represents to be a male or a female.
So that we are playing in an open platform.
And each soul is given the opportunity to really have a variety of experiences, without, saying for example, a woman comes onto the planet and she is basically caught up playing a woman’s role, or what is deemed to be a woman’s role, based on the programs – because all of this stuff is made up along the way. Even the energies that they have talked about, that we have come into, yes, those energies may have created us, the female dynamics and the male dynamics, and we may have a different way of responding. But that uniqueness of responding is also not going to be a prison or a box any longer.
So a woman comes into an experience on the planet, or male, or vice versa, and they are stuck playing that one particular role of a male or female and all the dynamics there included.
By allowing the roles to step out of the way, you can have the flexibility. Not that you play one specific role, because then the specificness of the roles will no longer be there.
So then you can actually be another being, another soul, in a body, that can experience all realms of the existence on the planet, the playground, and so forth, without having those paradigms held in place.
With the Oneness consciousness that’s coming in, is that instead of us coming into each others lives and “I play this role, and I play that role”, in a rigid form, we are going to be in a fluid form, where we come into each others lives, we assist one another, without “I need to play this you need to play that” it’s – you assist and you adapt with that, in fluidity to play with the opportunity, of giving each other the opportunity to play.
Now, at the same time, whilst this is occurring we are not going to be in that old rigid form, we are also allowing ourselves – each soul – to experience itself in a free state, where it no longer needs to be bound in any way by the genders or by any culture or belief system or anything of that nature, that is attached to the genders.
So in a Oneness Consciousness we see each of us as aspects of each other, and we assist each other in a way where each soul will get the exact lessons that they need, the exact expansion that they need, and the self discovery that they need, without having rigidity. Without having barriers, or definitions, and so forth, of what one role, versus the next, plays.
So it becomes very fluid. And I am not saying playing house and all that stuff because those are again little games that we have played, and these are all definitions that we have created that are dissolving too.
It is a harmonious dance, everybody is allowed to be themselves, whatever that may be, in a very fluid state. It is not anymore caught up in the old program, or holding in place that “This is the role I came here to play, and this is the role I need to play”.
No, you came in here to have a variety of experiences, and because everything is accentuated and sped up and this Oneness Consciousness is coming in, you can shift your experience much more freely, without being caught up in any of the old programs from before.
So all of it is changed, right now. We are in a very different, and exciting times because we are not as restricted. And this is what all the Purge & Clear is all about, is to get rid of all the restrictions and so forth. And to learn whatever we needed to complete and learn from and then move on from there.
2012 is being talked about so much right now.
There are so many varying view points on what 2012 is all about.
Some of them talk about doom and gloom and others of peace.
Is 2012 about the end of the world? NO!
Will there be changes leading up to 2012 that may
be uncomfortable for many? Yes.
Do these changes need to be uncomfortable? NO.
2012 is the ending of a world time and the beginning of
a new world time as was spoken about by the Mayans.
It is up to us to decide what the new world era will be.
Why is 2012 so important? You see 2012 is an incredible
shift. It’s a wake up call for humanity. There are so many levels
of assistance that we are receiving right now in order to wake
up as many as possible so that we can create a world of love
and peace. Will this happen overnight? No. It will take time
to transition. More and more people need to wake up from
the illusion that we are separate from each other, from
the animal kingdom and the planet.
We are all one. What we do to one affects all others.
2012 will mark the beginning of a Oneness Consciousness
so that we can live in peace and love.
Is this possible given the current state of the world? Yes it is.
We do however need to wake up as many people as possible
so that the transition does not require discomfort.
Why the discomfort you ask? Well, ask yourself, have you
not changed and looked for different solutions and possibilities
when you were most presented with challenges? That’s the funny
thing about this current human experience – it takes a lot of
commotion for us to truly change.
Recently Franco DeNicola talked about “2012 The Consciousness Shift”
at a gathering here in Toronto. I highly recommend you listen to
the audio from the event:
After that, register for the Understanding The Human Experience
event on May 28 & 29. You can attend here in Toronto or
anywhere in the world via Masterpiece Life TV.
At Understanding The Human Experience you will receive
a much deeper knowing of what being human and 2012
is all about. This is a weekend that will free you to access
peace in your life in a way you have never experienced
Many shifts are taking place right now as
seen and experienced in Japan and all over
And, more is yet to come…
Join us on Wednesday, April 13th as
Steve Flemming from Soul City hosts
a special evening with Franco DeNicola
on “2012 and The New Consciousness Shift”.
I am hoping to have this event recorded and sent
out to those of you not in the Toronto area:
Below are the details:
2012 and The New Consciousness Shift
by Franco DeNicola
Date & Time: Wednesday, April 13, 2011, 7:30pm – 10:00pm
Location: Timothy’s World Coffee, 2098 Yonge Street, Toronto
(Just two blocks south of Eglinton)
*Arrive at 7:30 * 1 beverage minimum to support venue
Event starts at 8:00pm
Contribution: Only $10
To RSVP for this event please go to:
The Soul City Social Club at:
or call Steve Flemming to reserve a seat at 416-915-6677
Space is limited to the first 40 – You Must RSVP!!!
Be sure to be there and explore what 2012 and The New
Consciousness Shift are truly all about.
Any shift (planetary, governmental, peace, etc.) can only
take place when the relationship within you shifts.
And yes, you are shifting all the time.
What we call “relationships” has also undergone
shifts throughout our human experience.
Stage 1: Ownership
At first relationships were all about what you
“owned”. People were a simply commodity
to improve or advance your quality of life.
There was no such thing as “love” back then.
It was simply survival. You married for power
or for having someone to take care of you.
Children were simply a commodity, a
workforce, tools for advancement or a
way to be taken cared of when you were
older. They were your possession to do
with as you pleased.
Stage 2: Love
Relationships latter evolved with the notion of “love”.
This illusion of love has always been based
on finding someone else “out there” that would love
and accept you. It has served. However, it has always
been destined to cause turmoil because you are never
happy with whom you are and you are constantly seeking
someone else to love and fulfill you. This love
is extremely conditional, confining and limiting.
Literature and film are great at glorifying “perfect love”
when in reality 99.9% of relationships are filled with
issues that most feel they need to hide (especially in the
Stage 3: Oneness
This is the third stage of relationship that we are
currently shifting into. Many, many belief systems
need to be released for this to truly be experienced.
Beliefs like: ownership, needing to be loved,
conventional acceptance of what is a relationship,
love, marriage, parenting and many more.
This is what we will be working with this Saturday,
February 5th at the De-Coding Relationships with
Franco DeNicola and myself.
This really is “THE BIGGY”
Shift cannot happen until you free and transform
the relationship you have with yourself first.
It doesn’t matter how many programs you invest
in for money, manifesting, health, attracting the perfect
mate, etc. Besides, your soul is now directing
your experience and the conscious and subconscious
mind play only a small role.
Free yourself from the old archaic belief systems and
create a relationship that is truly based on love
I invite you to register for De-Coding Relationships now.
Attend live or over the internet via Masterpiece Life TV
Go Here to Register Now:
This is such an important event that we have kept the
contribution to attend as low as possible.
If you truly cannot make that contribution then email
me and we will work something out.
Do not let money stand in the way of your freedom.
All those who register for the event will receive the
MP3 recordings once they are available.
Thank you for being part of the Masterpiece Life
community. By doing so you are assisting in these
incredible times of change and transformation.
I’m so excited about a new life changing program
that I am putting together with my wonderful friend
Franco DeNicola that I just had to tell you about it right away.
Achieve Clarity & Enter a New World of Inner Peace
Truly understand and embrace your humanity and
purpose at this time, to shift into the oneness and peace
This will be a live event here in Toronto, Canada
June 12 &13 (more details to follow at a later date).
We are going to have two free preview calls.
Whether or not you can make the June event
you will want to be on this call:
Tuesday, May 18, 2pm Eastern
Tuesday, May 18, 9pm Eastern
Register now ==> www.masterpiecelife.com/ClarityPeace
Why two calls? Because a large part of our
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