Posts Tagged ‘relationships’
“Relationships: The Male-Female Role of Provider and Care Giver” is a continuation of the post I did a few days ago on “What is a Healthy Relationship”.
The perceived normal role as a partner, while you have the provider-protector, and then you have the nurturer-comforter, and then sometimes you tend to get locked within those roles. And very often we assume passed-down roles to the detriment of one or the other, meaning – someone thinking they have to be the provider, therefore cannot go on to do other things.
When you did the Oneness Consciousness Event last month I had an Aha-moment, when I realized that manifesting or creating or co-creating, is a condition that requires both sometimes opposites or oppositions, or suppressor and victim, or a victim and a victimizer. That often we have this opposite role in manifesting. And that is why some of our creations may not come out in a specific way.
So my question is:
Can you provide some examples of what a manifestation from Oneness Consciousness would look like, feel, taste, smell, that might be available to people now to look at creating, as opposed to the old paradigm where in a relationship you have the role of the provider, the protector and then you have the role of the caregiver, the nurturer.
If we remove the old paradigm of that duality and now we are approaching a relationship from the Oneness Consciousness, what would that look like?”
Actually, that is an excellent question and staging there, about that whole thing about Oneness, and also, the roles.
Because that is key to understand that the roles we have played in the past, that – one being the male, and they have to play all these specific roles. And we have the female that plays all these other specific roles. And then of course, depending on your culture, and also the different eras, that the roles have changed to some degree, but the roles are different.
So, with the shift in Consciousness that we are going through, with the Oneness Consciousness, we actually go beyond these roles and we start to eliminate the roles.
Where it is not about the male playing all these specific roles and the female playing other specific roles of one being provider and one being the nurturer and so forth.
Those roles were what served in the past and what we played with before, where we started to categorize. But this is one of the things we need to understand, that through this Shift of Consciousness that we are going through, we are allowing the opportunity for play.
See the thing is, what was occurring with us, is that each lifetime that we come back onto the planet, we pick a different role, or a different culture, a different set of parents. To give us a different stage of experiences. Now, also coming into a female or a male gender, that also provided the same thing – a different experience.
But now we are dissolving all of that to a stage where we are in a female body, or a male body, but we are not anymore adhering to what we set as a protocol of what it represents to be a male or a female.
So that we are playing in an open platform.
And each soul is given the opportunity to really have a variety of experiences, without, saying for example, a woman comes onto the planet and she is basically caught up playing a woman’s role, or what is deemed to be a woman’s role, based on the programs – because all of this stuff is made up along the way. Even the energies that they have talked about, that we have come into, yes, those energies may have created us, the female dynamics and the male dynamics, and we may have a different way of responding. But that uniqueness of responding is also not going to be a prison or a box any longer.
So a woman comes into an experience on the planet, or male, or vice versa, and they are stuck playing that one particular role of a male or female and all the dynamics there included.
By allowing the roles to step out of the way, you can have the flexibility. Not that you play one specific role, because then the specificness of the roles will no longer be there.
So then you can actually be another being, another soul, in a body, that can experience all realms of the existence on the planet, the playground, and so forth, without having those paradigms held in place.
With the Oneness consciousness that’s coming in, is that instead of us coming into each others lives and “I play this role, and I play that role”, in a rigid form, we are going to be in a fluid form, where we come into each others lives, we assist one another, without “I need to play this you need to play that” it’s – you assist and you adapt with that, in fluidity to play with the opportunity, of giving each other the opportunity to play.
Now, at the same time, whilst this is occurring we are not going to be in that old rigid form, we are also allowing ourselves – each soul – to experience itself in a free state, where it no longer needs to be bound in any way by the genders or by any culture or belief system or anything of that nature, that is attached to the genders.
So in a Oneness Consciousness we see each of us as aspects of each other, and we assist each other in a way where each soul will get the exact lessons that they need, the exact expansion that they need, and the self discovery that they need, without having rigidity. Without having barriers, or definitions, and so forth, of what one role, versus the next, plays.
So it becomes very fluid. And I am not saying playing house and all that stuff because those are again little games that we have played, and these are all definitions that we have created that are dissolving too.
It is a harmonious dance, everybody is allowed to be themselves, whatever that may be, in a very fluid state. It is not anymore caught up in the old program, or holding in place that “This is the role I came here to play, and this is the role I need to play”.
No, you came in here to have a variety of experiences, and because everything is accentuated and sped up and this Oneness Consciousness is coming in, you can shift your experience much more freely, without being caught up in any of the old programs from before.
So all of it is changed, right now. We are in a very different, and exciting times because we are not as restricted. And this is what all the Purge & Clear is all about, is to get rid of all the restrictions and so forth. And to learn whatever we needed to complete and learn from and then move on from there.
There was a powerful Relationship
Oneness Activation meditation that Franco DeNicola
facilitated at the De-Coding Relationships event.
This is very powerful relationship meditation. This meditation
is an activation on the cellular level and will assist
you to release some of the limiting beliefs that you
are carrying about relationships so that you
can experience freedom and peace.
You can access it here for a simple
contribution of only $10:
This is very powerful. I recommend listening
to it as often as possible. It will greatly assist you
with all of the changes that are taking place
right now in your life.
Also, be sure to listen to this one hour
excerpt from the De-Coding Relationships event.
It’s my gift to you and it will further empower you
in your life:
PS – The next event is Saturday March 5th,
“Truly Understanding Health”. Mark that date
on your calendar. More details to follow soon.
Any shift (planetary, governmental, peace, etc.) can only
take place when the relationship within you shifts.
And yes, you are shifting all the time.
What we call “relationships” has also undergone
shifts throughout our human experience.
Stage 1: Ownership
At first relationships were all about what you
“owned”. People were a simply commodity
to improve or advance your quality of life.
There was no such thing as “love” back then.
It was simply survival. You married for power
or for having someone to take care of you.
Children were simply a commodity, a
workforce, tools for advancement or a
way to be taken cared of when you were
older. They were your possession to do
with as you pleased.
Stage 2: Love
Relationships latter evolved with the notion of “love”.
This illusion of love has always been based
on finding someone else “out there” that would love
and accept you. It has served. However, it has always
been destined to cause turmoil because you are never
happy with whom you are and you are constantly seeking
someone else to love and fulfill you. This love
is extremely conditional, confining and limiting.
Literature and film are great at glorifying “perfect love”
when in reality 99.9% of relationships are filled with
issues that most feel they need to hide (especially in the
Stage 3: Oneness
This is the third stage of relationship that we are
currently shifting into. Many, many belief systems
need to be released for this to truly be experienced.
Beliefs like: ownership, needing to be loved,
conventional acceptance of what is a relationship,
love, marriage, parenting and many more.
This is what we will be working with this Saturday,
February 5th at the De-Coding Relationships with
Franco DeNicola and myself.
This really is “THE BIGGY”
Shift cannot happen until you free and transform
the relationship you have with yourself first.
It doesn’t matter how many programs you invest
in for money, manifesting, health, attracting the perfect
mate, etc. Besides, your soul is now directing
your experience and the conscious and subconscious
mind play only a small role.
Free yourself from the old archaic belief systems and
create a relationship that is truly based on love
I invite you to register for De-Coding Relationships now.
Attend live or over the internet via Masterpiece Life TV
Go Here to Register Now:
This is such an important event that we have kept the
contribution to attend as low as possible.
If you truly cannot make that contribution then email
me and we will work something out.
Do not let money stand in the way of your freedom.
All those who register for the event will receive the
MP3 recordings once they are available.
Thank you for being part of the Masterpiece Life
community. By doing so you are assisting in these
incredible times of change and transformation.
To the most important relationship of all…YOU!
Happy February!! And, this early out, may I be the first to wish you
“Happy Valentine’s Day!!!”
Have you noticed how the experience of living is based on relationships?
Even if you find yourself on a dessert island or in a monk’s cave you are still
in relationship with the most powerful and important relationship of all – YOU!
You see, that is what you are here for – to experience this relationship
with yourself. Everyone else in your life is here simply to assist you.
You are here to experience, learn, grow and play.
I think we forget about the play part very often!
If that is the case then why do relationships so often seem difficult and filled
with conflict, upset and hurt? How do we “De-Code Relationships“? Why are
they so difficult? Here are three reasons:
First: We are attached to an illusion of how relationships “should be”.
I’m not saying to let someone walk all over you in the name of “peace”.
No. That’s not what it is all about! However, we are holding on to outdated
beliefs about what relationship should be like. The media and movies
of course continuously reinforce this. We are constantly judging and comparing
the relationships in our lives to an illusion of what the “perfect relationship”
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The De-Coding Relationships preview video broadcast
is now available for you to watch below. In this video
Franco DeNicola and Antonia Hagens covered:
significant other relationships, parenting
relationships and the most important relationship
of all – with yourself!
Click on the arrow below to watch
De-Coding Relationship Preview then go to
and register to attend live in Toronto or to
attend over the internet via Masterpiece Life TV
What is relationship – really? It encompasses our lives.
Relationship can bring us happiness (or so we think!),
or relationship can be the most frustrating and worrisome
part of being human – at least that’s what it feels like
What Is Relationship – what is true relationship is
what Franco DeNicola and I will be covering tonight
Tuesday, January 18th at 9pm Eastern on the free
preview video broadcast via Masterpiece Life TV.
Join us live or watch the free video replay by going to:
This is a special event to assist you to uncover
some of the myths that you have been taught
You have no idea how many relationship myths
there are that we have bought into that will
only keep you continuously unhappy and
continuously searching for that “perfect soul mate”!!!
Make sure you watch the De-Coding Relationship
free preview event live as we will be taking
questions (as many as time permits).
If you miss it I will keep the video
replay available as relationships are such
an important part of our lives.
Here is the De-Coding Relationship
free video preview link again:
PS: You will be surprised how many relationship
myths there are!!!
See you tonight!
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PS: Join us and you will be surprised at how many relationship
myths are controlling your life!
relationship to or with someone else.
are how we experience life.
other, parenting, family, friends, work/career,
clients, acquaintances, and many more.
Almost everything in life is a relationship!
they are changing yet again.
balance sometimes you get forgotten in
the middle of it all. And, with all the self
help books out there it is confusing to
know what to really do when you just
don’t understand a relationship in your
life. Especially when it seems to be
falling apart, causing conflict and
you to join us for a very special event on Saturday,
February 5th called “De-Coding Relationships”.
purpose of relationships in your life
and to gain a freedom you never even
thought was possible.
Join us and have Peace: