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I believe it’s important to Make Peace With Your
Mind instead of conquering it.
Eveline Kopachkov, a good friend of mine, recently sent out
one of her daily message emails that I want to share
with you. I have called it Making Peace With Your Mind
her title was “Like a Domineering Parent”. Here’s her message:

Eveline Kopachkov

“Have you noticed how you always have answers?
They are the very first things you “get” when you
ask yourself questions.

Have you noticed how almost instantly the mind has a
tendency to kick in with doubt or denial? This is what
this most wonderful mind that you are using was taught
to do…to protect you. Now you can tell the mind it doesn’t
have to be so protective anymore.

The mind has been like a loving yet overprotective and
domineering parent that was taught to watch for you and
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Eveline Kopachkov

So what’s wrong with conditional
love anyway? We see it everywhere
we look, so what could be wrong with it?
Imagine… that every time you pay
me fifty dollars, I tell you I love you.
We could do that all day, but at the end
of the day, would you feel loved?
No, because you’d know that I “loved” you only because you paid me.

Truth is, we simply can’t feel fulfilled by love we “pay for.”
We can feel loved only when it is freely, unconditionally given.
The instant we do anything at all to win the approval, acceptance or
respect of other people – with what we say, what we do, how we
look, etc. – we are paying for the attention and affection
we receive, and we can’t feel genuinely loved.